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人生教我的 45 個功課

<div style="text-align: center;">人生教我的 45 個功課  - The 45 lessons life taught me ** 7 Percents **  ( 網路文章 ) </div>人生教我的 45 個功課   - The 45 lessons life taught me <div style="margin-left: 40px;">★ 作者：Regina Brett，90 歲，來自俄亥俄州‧克里夫蘭最大報紙 THE PLAIN DEALER 的專欄作家, 為了慶祝變得更老了，我曾經寫下人生教我的 45 個功課，這是我寫過最叫座的專欄。我這把老骨頭 8 月就要 90 歲了，所以，再一次，在這裡呈現這一個專欄 </div> 01。人生是不公平，但還是好得很。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Life isn't fair, but it's still good. </div> 02。懷疑的時候，為未來踏出一小步。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - When in doubt, just take the next small step. </div> 03。人生太短，短到來不及浪費時間去恨任何一個人。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. </div> 04。生病的時候，你的工作不會照顧妳。你的朋友會。保持聯絡。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. </div> 05。每一個月付清你的信用卡。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Pay off your credit cards every month. </div> 06。你不需要每一次都吵贏。同意你不同意的。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. </div> 07。找人一起哭。它比獨自啜泣更加療愈。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. </div> 08。對上帝生氣沒有關係。祂受得了。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. </div> 09。退休存款從你的第一張薪水條開始。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. </div> 10。講到巧克力，抗拒只是徒勞無功。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. </div> 11。和你的過去和解，所以它不會搞砸你的當下。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. </div> 12。讓你的孩子看到你哭沒有關係。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - It's OK to let your children see you cry. </div> 13。別拿自己的人生和他人做比較。你根本不清楚他們的人生是怎麼一回事。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. </div> 14。如果一段親密關係要偷偷摸摸，你根本不應該涉入。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. </div> 15。一眨眼的功夫什麼都會變。但是別擔心：上帝從來不眨眼。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. </div> 16。深吸一口氣。它會安定你的腦。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. </div> 17。沒用、不美、或不喜悅的東西都丟掉。 <div style="margin-left: 40px; color: DimGray;"> - Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. </div> 18。沒讓你死的真的會讓你更堅強。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. </div> 19。重拾快樂童年永不嫌晚。但這第二次只能靠你不靠人。 <div style="margin-left: 40px; color: DimGray;"> - It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. </div> 20。當關乎追求你生命的所愛，不要把不要當答案。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. </div> 21。點蠟燭，用好的床單，穿上炫麗的內衣。不要特殊場合才用。今天就是特別的一天。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. </div> 22。準備要過於周全，然後隨遇而安。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Overprepare, then go with the flow. </div> 23。現在就離經叛道。不要一把年紀了才開始穿上紫色。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. </div> 24。最重要的性器官是腦袋。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - The most important sex organ is the brain. </div> 25。除了你，沒有人在主宰你的快樂。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - No one is in charge of your happiness except you. </div> 26。把所謂的不幸用這一句話把它表框起來：「五年後，這還重要嗎？」 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?" </div> 27。永遠選擇生活。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Always choose life. </div> 28。原諒每一個人每一件事。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Forgive everyone everything. </div> 29。別人怎麼看你不干你的事。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - What other people think of you is none of your business. </div> 30。時間會痊癒幾乎每一件事。要給時間時間。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Time heals almost everything. Give time time. </div> 31。無論情況多好或多壞，它都會變的。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - However good or bad a situation is, it will change. </div> 32。不要那麼認真的看待自己。沒有人會這樣看待你的。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. </div> 33。相信奇蹟。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Believe in miracles. </div> 34。上帝愛你是因為祂就是這樣，不是因為你做了什麼或是沒做什麼。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. </div> 35。不要稽查人生。現在就呈現和做最大的發揮。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. </div> 36。變老了打敗另一種選項──死得早。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Growing old beats the alternative - dying young. </div> 37。你的孩子只有一個童年，讓它充滿回憶。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable. </div> 38。最後真正最重要的是你愛過。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. </div> 39。每一天都出門。奇蹟在四處等著。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. </div> 40。如果我們都把我們的問題都丟成一堆，然後看看其他人的，我們會把我們的撿回來。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. </div> 41。忌妒浪費時間。你已經擁有你所需要的了。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. </div> 42。最好的都還沒來。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - The best is yet to come. </div> 43。不管你感覺如何，起來、穿好和呈現。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. </div> 44。學會讓步。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Yield. </div> 45。人生不會打上蝴蝶結，但它仍然是一份禮物。 <div style="margin-left: 40px;"> - Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. </div> 據估計，93% 的人不會將這一個郵件轉寄。如果你是那 7% 會的人，請用「7%」作標 題，將它轉寄出去。 我在那 7% 裡頭。

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